“Choosing Him Ministries exists to connect women with Jesus, God’s Word, and each other.”


Throughout our events and partnerships over the past five years, we realized there is a great need for authentic Biblical Counseling with few opportunities to find it. Our philosophy is to marry proven counseling methods with the transformative power of God’s Word. Our heart is to walk beside women pointing them to Jesus, just as “Iron sharpens Iron, so one person sharpens another.” (Prov. 27:17) The struggles of life are processed in a healthier way when we are equipped with the Word of God as we seek to find solutions, and purpose, in our circumstances.” – Tecia Janes, Founder & Director


Values & Beliefs


At CHM, the heart of our counseling services will always be rooted in the truth found in God’s word. The statements below represent our ministry and the truth we will present in every counseling relationship.


  • We believe the Bible is “God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant may be fully equipped for every good work.” The Bible is the infallible, inherent word of God (2 Tim. 3:16-17)
  • We believe God is the only true, sovereign God, eternally existing in three equal persons: Father, Son and Holy Spirit. (John 16:13-15; Acts 2:16-47; Hebrews 1:1-1; 2 Peter 1:19-21)
  • We believe the Holy Spirit empowers followers of Jesus Christ today, leading people to faith in Christ and serving as our Counselor and Encourager. (Romans 8:9-11; Romans 8:14-16; Romans 8:26-27; 1 Corinthians 2:10-14)
  • We believe Jesus, being fully God and fully man, lived a perfect life, being the full example of the Christian life. We believe that Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Light and no one comes to the father, but through Him. (John 14:6)  We believe Jesus is the author and perfecter of our faith who generously gives grace sufficient for every person and every circumstance, as His power is made perfect in our weakness. (Hebrews 12:2) (2 Corinthians 12:8-9)
  • We believe sin is the transgression of God’s law (1 John 3:4), as revealed by the Holy Spirit through His eternal Word. (Ephesians 2:1-22; Romans 5:12; Romans 5:19; Romans 7:14-25)
  • We believe that every human was made purposefully and perfectly in the image of God.
  • So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. (Genesis 1:27)
  • For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. (Psalm 139:13-14)
  • We believe we are called to love God and to love others as this was the first and second greatest commandment. ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself. (Matthew 22:37-38)
  • We believe that the heart of God is to offer grace through faith so that all may come to know  Him. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast. (Ephesians 2:8-9)